she is an adult. she's 22 and has a child but no husband. i let her stay with me bc she is a cna and makes only $9/hr and was struggling with rent on her own. I'm 31 and was lucky enough to spend a lot of time with my grandfather on the farm growing up. he practically raised me bc my father was an otr truck driver and i barely seen him, but got a kinda old school upbringing. my grandfather was a no nonsense, nose to the grindstone type, so i learned at a very young age how to be self-sufficent. my sisters on the other hand were baby'd all their life. one is married and runs a daycare. the one that stays with me works and pays my other sister to watch her kid while she is at work (which she is daily about 30min late to). i built a cabin on my property for her last year bc i couldn't deal with my nephew anymore. he's like an uncontrollable wild animal. lol. i hope one day my sister grows up, but i have tried to tell her she has to get her own place and she has done it a few times, but couldn't pay all her bills and I'm a little too nice i guess, so i just built her a cabin.