Idk , never really figured this one out …I mean, I for one have never done this, nor would I, cause to me, it’s like cutting your nose of to spite your face… First off, I wouldn’t want to go without ; secondly, imo, sex is better with two than with one ; and lastly, I’m not a cheater , sooooo, the way I see it, there are better ways (oh, and I can be real creative when I wanna be ) to get back at your hubby/boyfriend than to withhold sex!!!
Also, to do so is a form of psychological domestic abuse…