I must have started a response 50 times by now and if I had pen and paper I would be playing garbage can basketball.
I decided just to tell it without adding to much of my personal beliefs though, I’m not sure they can be separated.
I grabbed my girls phone because mine was elsewhere and I needed to use it for what ever reason and she snatched it back so fast it went flying and after we stopped laughing she picked it up, did some stuff and handed it to me. When I asked her about it she was vague and told me something I didn’t quite believe but I trust her and didn’t think about it again.
Why did she snatch her phone like that? She was researching a present. BTW the present was AWESOME with thought and love put into it.
This scenario could have gone several different ways. Has she been acting different or suspicious all of a sudden? I also rely on my instincts and intuition can be helpful also but that is why communication is so important
I wonder how it would have turned out if I would have been jealous and or overbearing.
Another time with another girl same thing happens but this time I didn’t trust her because she had been acting strange.
“taking a wrong turn and getting lost” (for real) “working late” etc. etc. I didn’t flip out on her but started paying closer attention (could be that’s what she wanted…) to her. Asking to use her phone or wanting to with her to her mom’s or friends or where ever. She acted suspicious through it all we eventually broke up and yes she had a new fellow.
I was pretty young at that time and have sense gained some confidence, some self love, and I’m not insecure so no jealousy. Jealousy is toxic.
That’s two of my stories bro. I can only hope it might help in some way.